“Cancer changes your life, often for the better. You learn what’s important, you learn to prioritize, and you learn not to waste your time.”
– Kris Carr – Wellness Advocate and Cancer Survivor

Being a breast cancer survivor means more than overcoming a diagnosis—it’s a journey of resilience, strength, and profound transformation. This excruciating journey provides renewed perspectives on life, a deeper appreciation for everyday moments, and a commitment to living boldly. It’s not just about the battle fought, but the ongoing healing, growth, and empowerment that follows. From finding support in unexpected places to rediscovering personal strength, being a breast cancer survivor is a powerful testament to the human spirit’s ability to triumph in the face of adversity.

I was diagnosed with breast cancer, in 2016, a diagnosis that became the turning point in my journey. Marisa C. Weiss, M.D., the founder of Breastcancer.org says “Living beyond breast cancer is about embracing uncertainty with courage and celebrating every step forward, no matter how small.”

Breast cancer didn’t just test my physical strength; it challenged me mentally and spiritually. I went through 38 rounds of radiation, each one draining me in ways I never thought possible. I remember looking in the mirror—100 pounds overweight, emotionally wrecked, and staring down my fifties—wondering how I got here and how I could possibly keep going. It felt like my life had been one long struggle. Between childhood trauma, toxic relationships, and personal losses, cancer was another battle in an already challenging life.

But even on my darkest days, I knew I had a choice. I could either let cancer define me, or I could fight back—not just against the disease, but against all the emotional baggage I had carried for so long. I decided I wouldn’t let this diagnosis steal any more joy from my life.

If you’re facing your own cancer battle or feeling trapped in a cycle of grief, know this: you are not alone, and you are enough

Expert Advice for Breast Cancer Warriors

Surviving breast cancer takes more than physical strength and adequate medical care. It requires mental resilience and emotional support. Here’s what helped me:

  1. Build a Support Network – Whether it’s friends, family, or support groups, don’t go through this journey alone. Find people who will listen, love, and encourage you.
  2. Lean on Expert Resources – The more informed you are, the more empowered you’ll feel. Learn about treatment options and connect with healthcare professionals who align with your needs.
  3. Nurture Your Mind and Spirit – Emotional well-being is just as important as physical health. Consider therapy, meditation, or spiritual practices that center you.
  • Resources: Online therapy platforms like BetterHelp or Talkspace can connect you with licensed professionals if you’re unsure where to start. Apps like Headspace or Calm can guide you through the process.
  1. Prioritize Self-Care – Whether it’s a walk, a good book, or just time alone to reflect, make self-care a priority.

The Road to Recovery

Surviving breast cancer wasn’t just about getting through treatment; it was about reclaiming my life. I had to find the strength within to keep moving forward, not just for my family, but for myself. It wasn’t easy. The recovery process—both physically and emotionally—was long and filled with setbacks. There were days when I didn’t want to get out of bed. There were moments when I felt like a failure all over again, especially as I dealt with the physical toll cancer had taken on my body.

But over time, I realized something important: healing isn’t a straight line. It’s messy. It’s painful. It’s filled with ups and downs, moments of clarity followed by moments of doubt. But through it all, I began to understand that my worth wasn’t tied to my physical appearance or my past. I was enough—just as I was.

Resources:

CancerCare

Oncology social workers can help with the emotional and practical challenges of breast cancer. You can contact CancerCare at (800) 813-HOPE (4673) or [email protected].

Susan G. Komen

The Komen Patient Care Center offers free, personalized support, including emotional support, education, financial assistance, and help accessing care. You can contact the Komen Breast Care Helpline at (877) 465-6636 or email [email protected].

American Cancer Society

The American Cancer Society’s Reach to Recovery program connects participants with breast cancer survivors for one-on-one support. You can also call the American Cancer Society at (800) 227-2345.

The Cancer Support Community

You can call the Cancer Support Community’s Support Line at (888) 793-9355.

American Psychosocial Oncology Society

ABCD nurtures hope and restores confidence in anyone impacted by breast cancer. You can call the American Psychosocial Oncology Society at (866) 276-7443.

Book Recommendations:

Dr. Susan Love’s Breast Book – Dr. Susan Love

Beat Breast Cancer Like a Boss – a compilation of 30 interviews about breast cancer  conducted and condensed by Ali Rogin,

Not the Breast Year of My Life – Cara Sapida

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